Depends on what trails you want to go on. Research the trails and talk to folks who go on them and LOOK AT THEIR TIRES. All of the places I go would tear up 20's with such little sidewall. ESPECIALLY when aired down. Then the rims get dented.
Research the trails. Talk to folks. Get out there. Don't think you can learn it all on the net.
11" wide is also HUGE to me, but I appreciate side lugs that those sorts of tires don't come with. And a higher load range. And lots of plies in the sidewall. There is also a school of thought that tall skinny-ass tires are better for certain conditions, like 255/85-16.
Picking the "best" tires requires you to articulate what sort of offroading you want to do, and I don't think you've done enough yet to know. After a year or two, MY desires change and I need new tires anyway, so it's an evolution.